Monday, July 10, 2017

No Shoulds

Should I?  It should be this way.  I shouldn’t do that. 

The psychologist, Albert Ellis, suggested to his clients, “Don’t should on yourself or others.”

The inner chatter and ongoing conversations within are filled with shoulds about the past, present and future.  We create the story about how things were, how things are supposed to be, and how things are going to be.  Expectations of the way things should have been and should be are layered over past, present, and future experiences. 

Yoga dissolves the mental chatter and ruminations.  Yoga teachings in Pantanjali’s Yoga Sutras 1:1 – 1:4 reveal that with humility and practice, we calm the chatter within and join the stillness of the present moment.  We unite breath and movement, we connect our mind and heart, and we yoke awareness to this moment.  We discover and remember who we are and what is true for now.  Stillness and Grace emerge and we know all is right. 

That’s another reason I practice yoga.  



   

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